Just to take a prior discussion that was hitting a little too hard and heavy for the chat.

The subject at hand for the moment is Dating. Games women play... Games men play. Lies, deception, manipulation... and ALL THAT!

And how we can get past all the BS that gets in the way of being happy with someone.

Personally, I wanted to know...from the women, what is it that's keeping you from being totally upfront with a guy and telling him exactly what you want and expect?


Men, Women, Single, Married...whatever...we wanna hear from YOU!

Post edited by: elliott, at: 2008/06/06 13:03

Women, by faaaaaaaaaaar, play the most games. By in large, it's because they are more manipulative. Dudes work way to hard trying to 'figure out' the fairer sex and as a result are forced into playing the game. After we start playing, we don't know how to stop. Dudes have alot of Pavlov's dawg in us.

Why do women continue the game play? You know you all are the ultimate prize, yet you work so hard for us to work too hard... makes no sense. Yet the dudes you have no business with many roll with it.

brynj wrote:
Yet the dudes you have no business with many roll with it.


Why do you think they end up with the wrong types of men so often B?

elliott wrote:
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Why do you think they end up with the wrong types of men so often B?

I can't call it, man. For some it's self-esteem, others it's the 'thrill' in dating a rough neck/ bad boy. For real, I don't ever remember wanting to be with the rouch neck chik or the bad girl.. mind you that's different than a girl who does likes to do bad things I think that question can be answered so many different ways from women who's perception are beyond my scope of understanding.

Here's a question, why do dudes feel they need to be "that dude" to get women? Is it because they are so caught up in game play?

hmmm i would say women may want a relationship or settle down or maybe not.. but one thing is forsure, they been played, played the game and/or seen the game. alot of pride and trying to avoid unecessary heatache i think, is what keeps a women 'playing'.
from my neck of the woods...it would seem to me, the only time the men really 'man up' and start seeing the beauty & strength of a woman and start really respecting the woman for who and what she is ..is once they are married. till then, it seems to be a big game of how much one could get from another w/out investing.

somebodyssomekinda wrote:
hmmm i would say women may want a relationship or settle down or maybe not.. but one thing is forsure, they been played, played the game and/or seen the game. alot of pride and trying to avoid unecessary heatache i think, is what keeps a women 'playing'.
from my neck of the woods...it would seem to me, the only time the men really 'man up' and start seeing the beauty & strength of a woman and start really respecting the woman for who and what she is ..is once they are married. till then, it seems to be a big game of how much one could get from another w/out investing.

Well that's what dating is all about right? What can this person do for me?

I think there are tons of fellas who recognize and respect women who are still single. Problem is, those types of fellas get passed over for the guys who couldn't care less about them. Why is that?